Happy birthday to my mom in Heaven.
Last month, I published my tribute to my mom entitled, “I’ll Aways Be With You.” Throughout the writing process, I had a pretty clear idea of the chapters of my life I wanted to share in the book. However, I could not decide how to end the book in a way that would honor the ongoing impact my mom has on my life, even after her death.
As I reflected on my life, I thought about some of the lessons and hobbies that I learned from my childhood that have stayed with me to this day. This brought back childhood memories of building gardens with my family, and planting flowers with my mom. Some of my last memories with my mom include planting flowers at our final home together. My enjoyment of gardening has since transcended all phases of my life, from planting flowers as a child with my family, working at Comstock, Ferre & Co (a historic seed and garden center in Wethersfield, CT) as a teenager, creating border gardens in my condo yard and finally, planting gardens in my current home with my husband and step kids.
When my husband and I moved into our home, we immediately planted perennials and annuals. We planted many flowers planted at my childhood home. Friends and family have also provided me plants from their own garden, which I graciously planted as a reminder of the bonds I have formed over the years through gardening.
Soon, my husband and I decided we wanted to start a vegetable garden and asked the kids to help us. While the kids previously had helped from time to time planting flowers, starting a garden from scratch was a much bigger project. We had to first remove the grass from our yard, then set up the fencing, and till the soil before we could even begin to plant our first vegetable. With the kids’ help, we eventually had successfully planted our first garden of vegetables and herbs. Every year since then, we have planted a variety of crops and every year, the kids have helped us plant and harvest the garden.
With these memories in mind, I realized the generations of impact the simple act of planting flowers with my mom had on my life. I am thankful for the friends and family members I have bonded with over the love of gardening. I cherish the memories I have created with my husband and stepchildren as we garden together at our own home. Thinking about these memories helped me see the bigger picture of the legacy that my mom carries in my life. Even though she is not here to plant flowers with me now, I think of her every time I see the flowers blooming and enjoy a dinner of home-grown vegetables with my family.

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Sarah Ritter shares her feelings and experiences on the blog “Sarah Ritter’s Revelations… A Collection of My Poems & Short Stories.” Her writing has also been featured on several blogs such as CT Working Moms, Brave, Reckless and Whisper and the Roar and Straw Dog Writer’s Guild.
Sarah Ritter’s illustrated books “I’ll Always Be With You,” “So Many Great Books” and “Dad, Won’t You Walk With Me” along with her first poetry book “Inspirations, Transformations and Revelations: A Poetic Expression of My Personal Journey” are available in paperback and e-book on Amazon and on audio at Audible! Autographed copies are available on Etsy at the shop SarahRitterBooks.



Sarah Ritter is also a contributing poet to several anthologies including those published by The National Beat Poetry Foundation, and the Local Gems Press. These books are available on Amazon. Autographed copies are available on Etsy at the shop: sarahritterbooks.



























































